In early March, Gabriela Vieira and Matthew Hargraves moved into a brand new one-bedroom house in Midwood, Brooklyn. The couple, each 25, had spent the previous few years in an older constructing in Gravesend. They have been planning an enormous July wedding ceremony and have been trying ahead to upgrading to one thing slightly extra luxurious for the subsequent chapter of their lives collectively.
Because it occurred, one of the best a part of their new dwelling wasn’t the dishwasher or the personal patio, though they’ve used each day-after-day because the begin of the pandemic. As an alternative, it was the constructing’s courtyard, the place they held a 10-person wedding ceremony on July 18.
“It was the day I advised everybody I used to be going to get married,” mentioned Mr. Hargraves, who had meant to have a 150- to 200-person gathering with Ms. Vieira earlier than the coronavirus pressured them to cancel these plans. “We’d been planning to share it for thus lengthy; I didn’t need to lose that day.”
“It’s been a very long time coming,” mentioned Ms. Vieira, who grew to become mates with Mr. Hargraves in 2007, once they attended the identical highschool on Staten Island. They began courting in 2012. “With out the courtyard, we’d have been in my mother and father’ yard. Which is certainly not as scenic.”
The couple started searching for a brand new dwelling final winter. Mr. Hargraves, particularly, was keen to scale back his hour-and-a-half-long commute to Midtown, the place he works as a dealer at J.P. Morgan. However they didn’t essentially need to go away South Brooklyn, as Ms. Vieira teaches seventh-grade English in Marine Park. Additionally they preferred the realm and being near Staten Island, the place their mother and father nonetheless reside.
Looking on StreetEasy, they got here throughout the Vitagraph, a growth that opened this 12 months on the positioning of an early Twentieth-century film studio. It was close to the Q prepare, which might reduce Mr. Hargraves’s commute to 45 minutes.
There was additionally a health club within the constructing, an enormous plus for Mr. Hargraves, who used to go to a neighborhood health club after an extended commute on the finish of a 12- to 14-hour workday. (Because the health club has been closed, they’ve been taking walks across the courtyard, and Ms. Vieira has been doing yoga on the patio.) And whereas the hire was much more than they have been paying for his or her spacious, if no-frills, Gravesend one-bedroom — $2,600 a month vs. $1,600 a month — in contrast with the price of renting in new buildings elsewhere in Brooklyn, it was comparatively reasonably priced.
“We checked out some residences with related facilities in Downtown Brooklyn, however this was extra bang for our buck,” Ms. Vieira mentioned.
They determined to pay an extra $250 a month for parking, so that they wouldn’t need to drive round searching for a spot once they got here again from dinner with household at 11 p.m., a not-infrequent prevalence.
They have been so excited — and distracted — by the transfer that the onset of the pandemic barely registered. “I used to be like, ‘Nice — a two-week quarantine — we’ll get all the pieces achieved,’” Ms. Vieira mentioned.
$2,600 | Midwood, Brooklyn
Gabriela Vieira, 25, and Matthew Hargraves, 25
Occupation: Mr. Hargraves is a dealer at J.P. Morgan; Ms. Vieira is a center college English trainer in Marine Park, Brooklyn.
A constructing with some perks: That they had no concept how helpful the dishwasher, personal patio and in-unit washer and dryer can be. Or that the constructing’s courtyard can be the positioning of their wedding ceremony.
Assembly the neighbors throughout a pandemic: “We’ve slowly seen the constructing getting stuffed, however we haven’t actually had the prospect to sit down and discuss to individuals,” Mr. Hargraves mentioned. “Persons are pleasant, however there have been lots much less neighborly conversations.”
After it grew to become clear that they’d each be working at dwelling for months, Mr. Hargraves arrange a workstation in the lounge with a number of pc displays. Ms. Vieira works in varied different locations across the house.
“The one time it will get tough is after we each have conferences,” she mentioned. “However as a public-school trainer, I didn’t have a desk at work, so I’m used to being artistic.”
That they had debated about whether or not to get a two-bedroom (Mr. Hargraves’s desire) or a one-bedroom with a patio (Ms. Vieira’s).
“As you’ll be able to see, we now have a patio, so who received,” Mr. Hargraves mentioned, including that he was pleased with their resolution. “The 2-bedroom was lovely, however I see her on the market day-after-day, consuming, studying, napping. The patio has positively been price each greenback.”
“I simply love being outdoors, not feeling cooped up,” Ms. Vieira mentioned. “Usually, in the summertime, I’m going to the seashore or climbing.”
Spending a lot time at dwelling, they’ve additionally gotten round to many issues they may not have in any other case: staining a bureau, studying easy methods to put up shelving (pre-pandemic, Ms. Vieira’s father would have come by to do it) and increasing their cooking repertoire past the 5 or 6 standbys they used to cycle by means of earlier than going out to eat.
“We’ve by no means been notably keen on cooking,” Ms. Vieira mentioned, including that they’ve been glad to get good use out of the high-end home equipment of their new kitchen, though they nonetheless haven’t discovered what to do with the second sink.
Earlier than transferring in, they made a listing of all of the eating places they needed to strive of their new neighborhood; they’ve simply completed working their means by means of it, with outside eating and takeout.
The analysis additionally got here in helpful when planning their small July wedding ceremony. They knew, for instance, that they might name forward to order from Di Fara Pizza, the Midwood joint that attracts sidewalk crowds ready for hours to get a slice of pizza. However the rice balls they served as appetizers got here from an outdated favourite: Bassett Caterers, on Avenue X in Sheepshead Bay.
They have been sitting on their couch, looking on the courtyard as they frantically tried to plan a small wedding ceremony reception, once they realized the courtyard can be an ideal place for it. “We felt like we had nothing to lose, so we despatched the administration an electronic mail,” Ms. Vieira mentioned. “The constructing supervisor responded inside the hour and was excited to accommodate the request.”
On the morning of the marriage, Ms. Vieira placed on the $100 costume she purchased on-line for the event. Of their one-bedroom house, it was arduous to take care of the custom of “first look,” by which the groom doesn’t see the bride till she walks down the aisle, however someway they managed.
Their friends, who quarantined for 2 weeks earlier than the ceremony, all pitched in to assist. Ms. Vieira’s brother-in-law took images, a cousin dealt with Zoom tasks for about 60 friends who wouldn’t be attending in particular person, and their moms arrange the chairs and the flower arch Ms. Vieira constructed for the event.
The couple nonetheless plan to have an enormous wedding ceremony in New Jersey subsequent summer time, pandemic allowing, however they’re glad they determined to marry in a small ceremony this 12 months.
“It was actually the one day throughout this time the place we had everybody come collectively not socially distanced,” Ms. Vieira mentioned. “It’s bizarre to say that our masked wedding ceremony felt regular, however simply to have everybody collectively and celebrating throughout a time that feels very darkish and gloomy….”
“It was an enormous factor,” Mr. Hargraves mentioned. “Our wedding ceremony subsequent 12 months is certainly one thing I’m trying ahead to, however I believe each days will all the time be particular.”